New York Lixin and Huang Minyi join hands to promote anti-domestic violence
On October 17, the Garden of Hope, a nonprofit organization dedicated to addressing issues of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking, collaborated with City Council member Hong Min-yi to host the “Go Purple Day” event at the 7 train station in Flushing, Queens. This initiative aims to raise awareness about domestic violence within the Chinese community, coinciding with Domestic Violence Awareness Month in October.
Purple, a color symbolizing the fight against domestic violence, is central to this annual event organized by the Garden of Hope. The organization’s Deputy Director, Dai Siqi, emphasized that the goal of the event is to increase recognition of domestic violence and to remind the public that October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. She called on the community to assist those affected by domestic violence in accessing the appropriate services, while also encouraging victims to speak up and seek help.
According to the Garden of Hope’s annual data for 2023, more than 800 Chinese families and victims of intimate partner violence were served last year. Alarmingly, 59% of these cases occurred in Queens, with 94% of the victims either speaking little or no English. Many victims are first-generation immigrants who face stigma and fear that prevent them from disclosing their experiences, leading to feelings of shame around divorce. Additionally, a lack of legal knowledge, economic support, and social resources complicates their ability to leave abusive situations, forcing many into silence that adversely affects the physical and mental health of children involved.
Given the recent domestic violence-related homicides in Flushing, Dai underscored the urgency of the issue, stating, “It is crucial that those experiencing domestic violence seek help promptly.” She recounted the story of a woman who had married an American citizen and moved to the U.S. Despite enduring severe abuse, she felt powerless because her husband claimed she was dependent on him and had no rights. After enduring this for an extended period, she eventually reached out to the Garden of Hope, which helped her relocate and provided counseling. She has since found a new job.
Hong Min-yi affirmed that victims of domestic violence must understand that they always have choices and should not live in fear. She encourages all victims to reach out to the Garden of Hope’s hotline, regardless of their immigration status in the United States.
The Garden of Hope offers trauma-informed psychological counseling and support teams to help victims regain their physical and mental health. They also provide legal assistance, safe housing, and therapy for victims of domestic violence. Those in need can call (877) 990-8595 for consultation, with Chinese-language support available Monday through Friday from 9 AM to 5 PM.
